Introverts love solitude—especially when creating art, that’s for sure. But does that mean that introvert artists are always loners?
Well, if you are an introvert like me, you’ve probably learned that introversion is something bad. Many introverts grow up hearing that they’re too quiet—and that their quietness is wrong.
At school, for example, teachers would tell quiet kids to participate more in class. Quietness is basically being penalized, while outgoing children would be rewarded for their “active contribution.”
At home, parents would urge “their loner” to come out of their room, while the kid would just want to enjoy some calm moments alone with their thoughts.
Over time, introverted children can internalize the idea that their quiet nature is a flaw. They might even feel the need to apologize for being reserved.
That’s why introverts often learn to mimic extroverted behavior. They are taught to believe that extroversion is better, because society rewards outgoing personalities. But it takes them extreme emotional effort and self-distortion to play the extrovert.
Trying to fit into a world that celebrates extroversion is difficult. It’s easy to feel overshadowed by louder, more outgoing people and to question your own worth in comparison.
You may have spent much of your life being told by extroverts what’s “right” or “normal,” resulting in your quietness being mistaken for shyness, uncertainty, or a lack of direction—and making your creative confidence suffer.